From a male Follower:

We've been dating for 2 years. She's having a child before I met her, but I don't mind .

One day on her way back home after she visited her aunt in Accra. When she reached kasoa, it was too dark and there was no trotro to take her home. She called me around 9:30 pm, she said the cars are not going to swedru but rather Bodwoase. So I told her to come spend the night at my place here in Accra and then continue her journey the next morning. She said she will go to work the next day so she can't come to my place. She told me she knows a female friend at Bodwoase so she will spend the night at her place.

When she got there, it was 11:30pm almost midnight and the lady she wanted to spend the night at her place was not answering her calls. Later, she called me back saying she had gotten a place. I asked her to give the phone to the person so I can talk to her. It was a male voice. Ei. Der norr my heart kuut. 

I asked the guy, are u the one she's going to stay at ur place, he said yes. He gave the phone back to her. I was very pissed so I told my gf we will talk the next day, she called me several times but I didn't pick. The next day I told her not to call my line again because there are too much thought in my mind. But she kept calling and apologizing saying the guy is her ex boyfriend and she was having a menstrual period at that moment so nothing happen.

Though I didn't believe her, but I gave her another chance.

Some months later, a friend of mine told me that he has been seeing my girlfriend with another guy going out nowadays, why u guys broke up? He asked. I asked my girlfriend about it and she told me there's nothing going on, they are just friends so I shouldn't worry. I told her to stay away from him because I don't like that. She agreed. 

I visited her recently without informing her. When I got to the house, I called her on phone and asked where she is? She said she's in the house. We did a video call and she's sitting somewhere under a tree. I ask her to come home and she did. When She opened her door, I found out that she was about to pound fufu. Not knowing, the fufu she's about to pound is for her ex boyfriend I warned her to stay away from. I never knew until the ex called to check if the food is ready.

She hasn't saved his contact, but I know the guy's number, so I told her to pick the call if there's nothing going on. The moment she picked up, she told him that I'm around so she couldn't prepared the food. 

Right in front of me oo.

I decided to leave the house but she did not let me go. She want us to have fun before I leave. Already I bought champion CD because I know it will happen. She took the CD from me and hid it. A month later she said she's pregnant. Right now I want her to abort the baby because 1. I'm not ready to become a father. 2, I don't trust her ever since the first incident happened and it makes me angry anytime I remember.

I'm still with her because I feel pity for her when I said we should break. She will cry and become very slim within a day and it really makes me sad. Though the love I have for her is fading away, but I also feel sorry for her.

Please I need your advice