Suspected Cheating Spouse? Here's the Sign According to Psychologists

For those who suspect that their partner is cheating on them, consider the following explanation of the psychologist. A psychologist from the University of Indonesia, A .

Kasandra Putranto, said there were some unusual behaviors that could be signs of a cheating partner.

"Usually the signs of a cheating partner can be found from instinct, conscience, and also the mind when we realize there is something wrong with our partner," Kasandra said.

Meanwhile, common signs of infidelity in a relationship include a partner giving unusual and excessive affection suddenly.

"This can happen, for example, when he who is usually indifferent and doesn't show real affection suddenly becomes the most romantic person in the world," Kasandra said.

Then, the partner badmouths someone out of the blue. According to Kasandra, this behavior is a way to cover up mistakes and reduce the partner's suspicion.

"A cheating partner can suddenly vilify or demean another person because that person is an eye witness or who knows he is having an affair," Kasandra added.

Other behaviors that could be a sign of infidelity include stealth picking up the phone, increasing or decreasing sexual relations, and your partner being suddenly busy. According to Kasandra, the reasons for infidelity include anxiety in facing a transition period, such as having their first child, children entering their teens, children who have grown up and are starting to leave home, and entering retirement.Infidelity can also occur as an escape from an unhappy marriage, not achieving expectations in marriage, feelings of loneliness, unfulfilled sexual needs in marriage, the absence of a partner both physically and emotionally, and opening up opportunities for infidelity such as being easy to meet the opposite sex in a place work.

"In addition, infidelity has often occurred in large families so that the values of loyalty are waning," added Kasandra.

Kasandra also reminded that if people have cheated before, they are three times more likely to cheat again than those who have never cheated.

"This means that people who have cheated in the past will have the possibility to cheat again in the future," he explained.

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